Preheat the oven to 350°F. Grease a 9 × 13-inch baking dish.
In a large bowl, whisk together the melted butter, beaten eggs, sour cream, and hot honey.
Stir in the drained whole-kernel corn and cream-style corn, then fold in the Jiffy mix until just combined.
Fold in the jalapeños, green chiles, bacon, and cheese, reserving a little bacon and cheese for topping. Season lightly with salt and black pepper.
Spread the mixture into the prepared baking dish and sprinkle with the reserved cheese.
Bake for 40–50 minutes, until golden and the center is set but still soft. If the center remains loose, bake a little longer.
Let the corn pudding rest for 10 minutes. Finish with the reserved bacon, chopped chives, a drizzle of hot honey, and a little flaky salt, if desired.